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Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Start with yourself
"Honesty is the best policy."
It may sound a little cheesy at first but after giving it a thought, will you agree with me? Unless you have nothing to risk which I believe otherwise.
We humans, have a flexible, unlimited capacity for deception. Most of the time we choose to keep mum because we are looking towards what is best for us. That desire and that need to deceive because there's a need of good impression and trying to avoid problems after admitting.
However, you can say its your life to keep others in the dark because you are in total control. Now, maybe dishonesty is the second best policy. Dishonesty is when you need a turn around to cover up something you are wanting to change. Then go ahead as long as you know you WILL become better.
If not, honesty still is the best policy. It feels good to admit than weighing all the guilt in you.
To be honest, you need to leave all your pride behind you. Admit, not defend.
Now,
"Would you want to know or rather not know the bad news?"
You want to know because you don't want to draw any line in between parties and yourself, you are curious, you want a relationship to be transparent, you don't like the idea of being cheated on/kept in the dark.
You think its best you not know because when you don't know, there's nothing to worry about, when there's nothing to worry about, nothing will change your mood, and when nothing changes your mood, you'll be you.
So which one is the better way?
Since I said honesty is the best policy, I guess it is good if you know something you don't wanna know because at least, you are not walking in a maze. Be honest with yourself first, you know you wanna know.
When a problem strikes, you need to strike it out immediately instead of leaving it there. Nothing beats cancelling out something bad from your list. ;-)
Don't jeopardize your relationship by shutting yourself out just because you are afraid of knowing. Solve.
It may sound a little cheesy at first but after giving it a thought, will you agree with me? Unless you have nothing to risk which I believe otherwise.
We humans, have a flexible, unlimited capacity for deception. Most of the time we choose to keep mum because we are looking towards what is best for us. That desire and that need to deceive because there's a need of good impression and trying to avoid problems after admitting.
However, you can say its your life to keep others in the dark because you are in total control. Now, maybe dishonesty is the second best policy. Dishonesty is when you need a turn around to cover up something you are wanting to change. Then go ahead as long as you know you WILL become better.
If not, honesty still is the best policy. It feels good to admit than weighing all the guilt in you.
To be honest, you need to leave all your pride behind you. Admit, not defend.
Now,
"Would you want to know or rather not know the bad news?"
You want to know because you don't want to draw any line in between parties and yourself, you are curious, you want a relationship to be transparent, you don't like the idea of being cheated on/kept in the dark.
You think its best you not know because when you don't know, there's nothing to worry about, when there's nothing to worry about, nothing will change your mood, and when nothing changes your mood, you'll be you.
So which one is the better way?
Since I said honesty is the best policy, I guess it is good if you know something you don't wanna know because at least, you are not walking in a maze. Be honest with yourself first, you know you wanna know.
When a problem strikes, you need to strike it out immediately instead of leaving it there. Nothing beats cancelling out something bad from your list. ;-)
Don't jeopardize your relationship by shutting yourself out just because you are afraid of knowing. Solve.
Loves,
Christina